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Not only is her home tiny, she’s tiny, too. Obviously frail, she weighs in at well under one hundred pounds. The actual number doesn’t even match her age – ninety-eight! Suggestions that she should move into town don’t receive much of a hearing from her. And her friends’ statements of concern that, “it’s so lonely and remote out here,” don’t gain any traction at all.
Millie reminds me that physical frailty doesn’t necessarily equate to
either weakness of character or of spirit. This tiny titan has character and
spirit in abundance. Her stalwart independence was developed throughout her
life’s journey, meeting challenges and disappointments, bereavements and losses
along the way.
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However, her independence represents only one side:
~ She lives alone, but
is not lonely.
~ She is frail and weak, yet she is strong.
~ Her means are modest,
yet she abounds in the richness of contentment.
Here’s the other side: Many
decades ago Millie committed her life to the Lord Jesus. He is to her a close
and constant companion.
Importantly, she didn’t get stuck on the periphery of the Christian life,
but journeyed along that pathway, exercising dependence on God’s grace, growing
in faith and in her relationship with the Lord. Reading the biblical scriptures
and meditating on their implications and significance for her life, while
keeping daily prayer appointments with God and serving others in His name –
these have given her sustaining power.
This indomitable soul has faced her todays
with gratitude and grace, despite whatever her yesterdays might have brought. And now Millie continues facing her tomorrows in readiness of spirit. She’s
homeward bound to be with Jesus, her Lord and Saviour, while continuing
house-bound in her tiny cottage in the woods, journeying on into this—another
New Year, with hope and peace, joy and love. . . . And contentment.
Contentment – what a great quality!
Hopes, dreams, aspirations and ambitions, and even discontentment
might be OK, if well-placed and well-focused; they can occupy an appropriate,
beneficial place in our lives.
Of course, unless these desires and motivations are honourable and
others-oriented and we go about fulfilling them by honourable means, such urges
may consume us with a soul-destroying selfish obsession. Unchecked, they can
leave a trail of ruined lives, broken relationships and families, violence and
crime and murder, and even become amplified as feuding communities and
countries at war.
But this isn’t so with folks like Millie and friends of hers I’ve come
to know. Regardless of whether people are financially poor or wealthy, they can
be either intensely selfish and discontented, or selfless and truly contented.
Let US journey on into the New Year, balancing contentment and ambition
the “Millie way.” It was Apostle Paul’s way, too – content and ambitious
at the same time. He says:
“But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing
into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and
clothing, we will be content with that” (1 Timothy 1:6-8 NIV).
And, “. . . one thing I do:
Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward
the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ
Jesus” (Philippians 3:13b-14 NIV).
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Peter A. Black lives in Southwestern Ontario. He writes a weekly
inspirational newspaper column, P-Pep! and is author of Raise
Your Gaze ... Mindful Musings of a Grateful Heart, and Parables from the
Pond.
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7 comments:
Peter, thanks for writing about Millie. People like her bring balance to our unbalanced world. Meeting those who are totally devoted to Christ, and as you say, alone but not lonely, is refreshing. I'm sure she's a treasure chest of wisdom.
Thanks, Peter for this delightful story of one of the heroes of the Faith, and for the reminder that we need to try to be like her in the year ahead. Love the way that you appreciate the contributions of others, like Millie and so many writers. Blessings for the New Year.
Thank you Eleanor and Rose. You're both assuredly 'people persons.' The biographical aspect of your writing reflects your admiration and appreciation for people who inspire and teach through their overcoming challenges or demonstrating grace in the ordinariness of life (often through their trust in the Lord).
New Year blessings to you and your loved ones. ~~+~~
Oh my. I love Millie. What a genuine soul. Do you know here, Peter?
I love how 'rich' she is. And I admire her stamina and her desire to stay strong in the face of her frailty. A good example of godliness and contentment - a powerful lesson to the world.
I like Millie! I especially like you you put it
~ She lives alone, but is not lonely.
~ She is frail and weak, yet she is strong.
~ Her means are modest, yet she abounds in the richness of contentment.
There's contrast like that in all of us if we lean on Jesus.
Thanks, Glynis and Ruth. I'm eagerly awaiting meeting Millie in person. I've seen her cottage in the woods from the outside. She's a lifelong member of the country church I'm involved with at the present time. My friend is her pastor and he has shared with me so much about her, and informed her he plans to take me along to visit with her, so that she'll know who this guy is she reads about in the bulletins she receives.
He has painted such vivid verbal pictures of her also when updating the congregation on how she's doing that this profile readily came together. ~~+~~
May Millie be a blessing to you, Peter, as I'm sure you would be to her.
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