Friday, November 16, 2012
Erma McAllister - Still Writing at 96 by Rose McCormick Brandon
A sturdy gate and tidy flower garden lead visitors to Erma McAllister’s back door. My mother, sister Carolyn and I recently visited Irma in this house where she’s lived since the 1940s, located across the road from her childhood home.
Erma’s best known for her column in the local weekly newspaper, The Manitoulin Expositor. She writes about social and township events in her Island community,
, a tiny village surrounded by farms. In my recent story, Manitoulin Connection, for Chicken Soup for the Soul O Canada, I mentioned how our family’s visits to Spring Bay Manitoulin Island appear in Erma’s column because of our Island roots.
After much urging from her children and grandchildren, Erma, at age 90, decided to write her life story. Her life entwines with the rich pioneer history of the area. It appeals to those who treasure their roots, which on Manitoulin, is nearly everyone. At 92, Erma self-published her memoir, Reflections and Stories. To date, her sales are just short of one thousand copies, an enviable number in the self-publishing industry.
I read Erma’s book and found references to both sets of my grandparents. It turns out, Irma loves to dance and often step-danced to my Irish grandfather McCormick’s jigs and reels. I envisioned him sitting on a wooden chair, his right foot stomping in a heel-to-toe pattern as he fiddled, dreamily lost in his music. And Irma, a young, limber, step-dancing beauty.
Erma tells of home prayer meetings attended by most people in
. My mother remembers gathering with local families, kneeling on hard, often cold, floors, taking her turn talking out loud to God. Hard-farming adults, children in tow, regularly cleaned up for prayer meeting night. Campbell Township
A week after our visit, this appeared in Irma’s column:
“Mildred McCormick and two of her daughters were in to visit me on Tuesday morning. Mildred bought a book from me. I now have 36 books left. Her daughter, Rose, is writing a book and very active in writing stories, etc. I enjoyed their visit. Mildred was raised on the
Beaver Road.” (Erma’s reference to Beaver Road lets readers know we’re connected to the Island; connections matter here.)
Erma’s enthusiasm for life inspires her family, friends and readers. We spent less than two hours with her, but all three of us – Mom, Carolyn and me – exited her gate with a stronger belief that participation is the key to a meaningful life. A widow of more than two decades, a non-driver, alone in a country setting – she has earned the right to grumble and succumb to self-pity. But succumbing isn’t in Irma’s DNA. In her soul, Erma’s still step-dancing through life, drumming the message that staying connected to one’s community and writing about it keeps us young at heart.
Rose McCormick Brandon’s most recent book is He Loves Me Not . . . He Loves Me. Her articles and essays are published in magazines, books, newspapers and devotionals in
Canada and the She is an award-winning writer who specializes in personal experience, faith, life stories and the British Home Child Immigration period of Canadian history. Rose is married to Doug and lives in U.S. . She has three adult children and two grandchildren. Visit her blogs: The Promise of Home and Listening to My Hair Grow. Contact her at: firstname.lastname@example.org. Caledonia, Ontario
By Rev. Dr. Ed Hird My grandmother and mother knew that I would become an Anglican priest. I dismissed this expectation, being convin...
Maybe you can’t write full time. But could you make a late life career or part-time vocation of it? Explore the options with David Kitz,...
I volunteered to a write blog for The Word Guild site on the 22 nd of each month, and February’s theme “love” was idling in the back of...
It’s difficult for me to ask for anything. After all I was raised in a German family where my father helped me build character by telling...
In my household, tried and true is a good thing for many reasons. Whatever works, we keep on with it, whether it’s a particular way of p...
At our Facebook page. You can sign up there and read many more tips: https://www.facebook.com/groups/265911277141603/ Meanwhile, Writ...
The simple wild three-leaf clover. Wearing green. Corn beef and cabbage. Beer and cheer. (I've never tasted beer - and don't intend ...
We are seeing evidence these days of the words of the old hymn God Moves in a Mysterious Way, His wonders to perform. The theme o...
I highlighted the middle of my story and clicked cut. I could not relate to what the girl was going through. I wanted answers for my own ...
Do you ever discount your roots, your early beginnings? Do you attempt to trade them off or belittle them? Statements like ‘when we were ...