Saturday, April 06, 2019

News — Dread or of Relief? — The Wait! By Peter A. Black


Possibly, five hours had never felt so agonizing since the time Gail* was in post-op recovery after her kidney transplant surgery, more than twenty years previous. 
Similar gut-wrenching times of waiting for hopeful news would have coursed through their hearts when each member of this family – mother, father and both daughters – went through their respective cancer surgeries, and also when the mother suffered a near-fatal heart attack.

And now, Gail’s mom and dad and sister waited and wondered, hoping and praying. Her humanitarian work as a staff-member of a non-governmental organization (NGO) has taken her to many nations, flying with as many different airlines. On Sunday March 10th she was to fly by Ethiopian Airlines – her most favoured African airline – from Addis Ababa to Nairobi, Kenya.

I can scarce imagine the anxious, torturous thoughts her sister and parents, and her son and
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nephew experienced during those hours after hearing news of the crash of the Boeing 737 MAX 8 aircraft, killing all 157 on board. Gail was to fly this morning. Was she on board that plane? 
The family knew the flight number she was supposed to be on, but it was hours before the flight number of the crashed plane was announced in the media. Was that hers?

Breep! Breeb! The phone. Is this it? News of dread – or of relief? Of devastation – or of rejoicing?

The message went something like this: It’s Gail. I’m safe in Nairobi. My flight from Addis Ababa was scheduled to leave forty minutes after the one that crashed. But then the airport was shut down and we were stuck for nearly three hours on board before taking off. Indescribable relief. Pent-up emotions burst the banks, overflowing with tears of relief and joy and exclamations of thanksgiving!

The day following, my wife May and I met with my sister and her husband. They expressed how their tears of relief and joy were also mixed with sorrow for those families of the crash victims who received the dreaded news of their loved ones’ decease.

We do well to always be mindful of others and to pray comfort for those who mourn, even while rejoicing with those who have every legitimate reason to celebrate. That’s what the Scriptures teach: “Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep those who mourn” (Romans 12:15). And, “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ” (Galatians 6:2).

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The period of Lent urges us to deepen our understanding of and appreciation for our Lord Jesus, who carried the sin-burden for us and all humanity in His devastating sufferings and death on the Cross of Calvary.

My wife and I rejoice with my sister and her family, and we pray comfort for those who received the awful news that their loved ones and colleagues perished in that disaster, while praying also that they will receive hope and healing from God, through Jesus, to find their way forward.
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* Name changed to protect privacy.

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Peter is a retired pastor  well, sort of retired – as he is currently engaged as an associate volunteer pastor. He lives in Southwestern Ontario with his wife, May, and writes a weekly inspirational newspaper column and occasional magazine articles. Peter is author of two books: "Parables from the Pond" (Word Alive Press) and "Raise Your Gaze . . . Mindful Musings of a Grateful Heart" (Angel Hope Publishing). He and May are also engaged in leading nursing home / residential chapel services, pulpit supply and music. ~+~

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